When you think about taking family photos, do you imagine everyone standing still, wearing matching clothes, and flashing their biggest smiles at the camera?
So now picture something different, your kids laughing as they chase each other, their hair a mess from the wind. Your spouse sneaks up for a surprise hug, and you feel happy, loved, and part of something special.
These are the photos you’ll want to keep forever.
As a Tampa lifestyle family photographer, I’ve learned that the best pictures aren’t the perfect pictures. They’re real, filled with love, and truethful. They tell your family’s story far better than any forced smile can.
Let me explain why I value real moments over perfect poses and how this approach influences the way I photograph families.
Why “Perfect” Photos Aren’t Always the Best
We’ve all seen those flawless family photos on social media, where everyone wears matching outfits, has perfect hair, and looks immaculate. But what you often don’t see is the process it took to create them: the tears, the bribes, and the stress of trying to make everything just right.
From my experience, families cherish the not-so-perfect photos the most. The big belly laughs. The cute nose scrunches. The tight hugs around mom’s neck. These moments are what you’ll want to remember because they’re real.
What Makes “Connection Based” Family Photos Special
Many photographers claim to do “lifestyle” photography, but it can mean a lot of different things. I focus on what I call guided lifestyle photography. It’s relaxed and enjoyable. I give you just enough direction to capture sweet family moments while allowing things to unfold naturally.
Think of it this way: rather than asking you to “say cheese,” I might invite you to share a funny secret with your child. That usually leads to genuine smiles and laughter, which make for the best photos ever!
How I Help You Get Ready (Without Stressing About Being Perfect)
Part of my job is to help you feel at ease, not anxious about trying to be perfect.
From our first conversation, I assist you with:
- Choosing outfits that look great and work for active kids in Florida’s crazy weather
- Selecting the best times for your family (that also catch the best golden hour light)
- Planning fun activities with backup ideas for your kids (because plans can change!)
- Ensuring dads feel comfortable and have fun too
When you’re prepared, you can relax and enjoy yourselves. Happy families create beautiful photos!
Why We Love Those Messy Moments
Let’s face it: kids aren’t great at sitting still and smiling on cue.
And that’s perfectly okay.
In fact, those special moments often happen when your three-year-old starts running around or when your baby only wants to be held. These real-life scenes tell the authentic story of your family, perhaps a bit messy and energetic, but overflowing with love.
What If My Family Won’t Cooperate? Here’s the Truth
You know what’s funny? Some of my best lifestyle family photos come from dads who start out the session with, “Can we just get this over with?” Yet almost every mom tells me afterward, “I can’t believe how much fun the kids had!”
That’s what occurs when we focus on having fun instead of getting the perfect pose. When kids can run and play, and parents feel comfortable being themselves, everyone relaxes, and it reflects in your photos.
How I Make Photos Feel Natural and Fun
I don’t follow the usual “everyone line up and smile” routine.
Instead, I use simple, fun prompts like:
- “Everyone give mom the biggest hug!”
- “Let’s play red light green light!”
- “Who can tickle dad and make him laugh the hardest?”
These little moments create the best smiles, funny looks, and those quick family moments that hold so much meaning.
Here’s What a Real Photo Session Looks Like
Recently, I met a family in Westchase for a photo session. We started by playing tag under some large oak trees, took a snack break (which resulted in adorable photos!), and ended with family cuddles on a blanket as the sun set.
It was relaxed and fun, filled with movement and love. The mom’s reaction to her photos was perfect: “I didn’t even notice you taking half these pictures. We were just having fun together!”
That’s exactly what I strive for.
Moms, You Should Be in the Pictures Too!
I know you’re usually the one taking the photos instead of being in them. You might also feel unsure about being in front of the camera.
Here’s my promise: I’ll help you feel at ease, take beautiful photos, and ensure you feel confident just as you are.
There’s no need for diets or perfect hair. Your love for your family is all that matters, and it deserves to be captured.
Real Connections Create the Real Memories
When you stop trying to make everything perfect, something wonderful happens:
- Your kids feel loved for who they are
- Everyone enjoys the spontaneous moments
- The photos reveal your true family bond
- Everyone forgets there’s a camera there
In the end, these aren’t just pictures; they’re cherished memories of your family’s story.
What My Clients Love: “The unposed photos are always our favorites.”
Isn’t it funny? The photos families love most aren’t always the “perfect” ones.
It’s those sweet, genuine moments, like when your kids give you a messy hug or start laughing uncontrollably for no reason. Those are the pictures that end up framed on your walls and bring a smile every time you walk by.
If you’re looking for Tampa lifestyle family photography that is easy and enjoyable—where kids can be themselves, partners actually enjoy it, and you feel completely comfortable—I’d love to help capture your family’s special moments.
Reach out here to book your session, and let’s create some real, beautiful memories together.
Common Questions
What should we wear?
I’ll send you a complete guide, but think comfy clothes in soft, neutral colors. No need to match exactly; just wear what makes your family feel like themselves.
What about shy kids or reluctant partners?
No worries! My sessions are designed to help everyone feel relaxed and genuine.
What if it rains?
Florida weather can be unpredictable! But don’t worry; I always have a backup plan ready.
Do we get digital photos?
Yes! You’ll receive all your high-resolution digital photos, along with options for prints and albums if you’d like (totally up to you!).
Want Photos That Show Your Family’s Real Story?